not that it makes much of a difference but I did become aware a few years ago that I have a broad type of men that attract me physically and emotionally. Physically it's mostly the sort of intellectual handsome looking type, green/blue eyes(but it doesn't matter much), any hair really.

Emotionally(and this is a biggie because they could be my version of Adonis and it wouldn't matter if their personality isn't good) I've always been attracted to intelligent but not arrogant or pretentious men. Also, I don't like machism, macho men, macho attitudes, that puts me off totally and if I hear them say something like "I don't do X or Y because I'm a man" or "I'm a man, so..." my lady boner just shrivels instantly. And I like sensitivity, men who didn't have their emotions repressed and who can connect and feel deeply. For me that's an essential trait because I need someone who can truly connect and who takes emotions seriously, I can't truly trust otherwise. A sense of humor is a plus, playfulness, introspection. I'm a pretty active person(not overly so but..) so that'd be nice too. I'm not into "strong" men, I'm into human men.