Is there something that can happen in your life that can make you start to re-evaluate where you are in life? I think I had one Saturday night Sunday morning. I am not going to get into what happened but it did. At that moment I realized what everyone had been telling me before...back off. So at this point I have decided to back off and let my wife be the person she needs to be. Also do you think it is ok for me to ask to hang out with her on occassion or should I just be gone completly? Any help would be great. Thanks