I also have little ones to take care of but i generally still spend my time on the couch (minus feeding them and loving on them) and unfortunately I miss more of their time growing then necessary. It's rather horrible on my part. Thankfully my husband (because of his shift) is home most of their waking hours and my mom usually fills in the blanks. When mom is around she usually pulls me out of bed and forces me to spend time with all of them. This sometimes works but can also make matters worse.