Oh no, RxQ, NO WAY are you over-reacting!

THis woman has very serious boundary (and other, imo) issues. Seriously, a grown woman saying to her ADULT son, "You Choose Her Over Me...!" ...waaaaahhhh... What. The. Actual. HELL? Ick. Just, ICK. SHE wants to be his "best girl" is what it sounds like.

It's wonderful that your bf is not havin' it. Let's hear it for men with maturity and self-awareness (and btw does your bf give seminars on same, bc I know a guy or two who could use intense classes..) LOVE IT She'll not win anything by this behaviour -- which is exactly as it should be!

Emotional blackmail is abuse --- and she's a piece o'work, imo!

You go, girl.

xo,

Chyia, proud as heck of both you & bf!