I am a VERY INDEPENDENT person. I dont ask for help unless it is something I just absolutely can't do by myself.

I was really bad that way when I lived in Calif....BUT its interesting after moving to a very small town in Ky, I have found that people do offer things like rides from the air port JUST TO BE NICE with NO alterior motived but TRULY out of the kindness of their heart. I have also learned that it is ok to accept their niceness because here it is TRULY UNCONDITIONAL.

It took me a few years to learn this coming from Lis Angeles where everything had strings attached so it was really nice to know that there are truly kind people that do exist in this world & trust can grow just living around these REALLY KIND people.

I hope this is the situation that you are encountering & will be able to learn & grow from your experience here