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Old Jun 02, 2017, 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted by i_am_peacock View Post
I'm sorry, but most of the posts in this thread are making me mentally shoot the middle finger. I think my anger is just a primal response that I have when I feel threatened or stressed. When I'm jogging, my heart is racing and my adrenaline level is high, so I become very defensive, like a caveperson being chased by a dinosaur or cannibal. When reading this thread, I'm absorbing a lot of criticism and chastising, which also trigger defensiveness.

If my state (Texas) or the federal government eventually legalizes marijuana, I may finally be cured. Until then, I suppose I'll continue to release my anger in the relatively harmless ways that I do (I promise that I will never allow myself to carry a gun or knife on my jogs and hikes). Few, if any, drivers seem to notice my flipping, since I just release the middle finger from one or both of my closed fists as I continue to move my arms back and forth (also, I usually start right after they pass, so it's not coming up in their face).
Actually what you describe about your primal reaction is very much part of running in my experience - when people are in races that is what pushes them to go that bit faster. The adrenaline is pumping.

That said the aggressive reaction is not usual in my experience. I think modifying your reaction such as making sure your finger is not obvious is a sensible way of handling it.