Good points. I can see how words of affirmation would work. I'm still trying to figure out what her love language is so I can reconnect. It suck cause my love language is Physical touch. Maybe I will engage her in a topic besides our marriage. It just seem like every time I do, she is short and smart mouthed in her responses. Like when I was at her house last night, I asked if we could watch TV without arguing and she ended up starting an arguement. Well, she invited me over again tonight. Any tips for me?