saluki, you know I respect you so I'm just being honest here. Whether you approve of porn or not, I've yet to meet a guy who never looks at it. Perhaps you could point him toward material you wouldn't object to so much? Erotica can be a terrific outlet and can even have some artistic merit (depending on the author).

I didn't want to post in this thread because you said you didn't want to hear that porn isn't bad but that most men crave it as an outlet is pretty normal. It's a coping mechanism to a drive we are slaves to and that's hard for women to satisfy. I've also heard many of my male friends comment that it helps them remain faithful (only anecdotal evidence, nothing to back this up).

Cyran0