im not going to hide what makes me mad just so he can look at naked chicks. i find porn degrading and sexist and disgusting so he should respect that. to me its the same with just about everything: if youre going to look, dont tell me you wont then you do. tell me you will so when i find it i wont be horrified. if youre going to drink or smoke or whatever, just tell me first. its the lie that goes along with it, not necessarily the action.

he said he looked for about 10 minutes tops and said to himself "what the hell am i doing?" and stopped. i just hate being one of those girls that looks through stuff cause im not trusting. he knows that i always find out lol

he did this on thursday. the mouse was broken but you could still kinda get around it, it was just a pain. just so happens that my mom sent me a mouse for the computer on saturday. so its kind of a coincidence that i found it only 2 days later. plus i can read him like a book. i know when he is hiding something and he knows that. thats why he cant hide stuff from me. weve worked it out. i told him that i might just need him to reassure me more often and he has been basically waiting on me hand and foot i guess to make up for it?

bottom line, i dont want him looking at other women, especially not in such a demeaning manor. he has told me when he thinks certain girls or celebrities or whatever are attractive. but i dont tolerate sexist activity like that. he can be a misogynist somewhere else, but not in my house. hes getting help for his problem though. he never told anybody, so he never knew it was a problem. he sees it now though, which is good.