First, hello. Things like this make me wish Charlotte was around... she was a protector for our previous host type person and she did so much to help her come to terms with having others... really, Char did tons to help a lot of us accept our DX. She was a champ about that kind of thing. I don't really know what she did or how she did it, but I do know she had a ton of patience for us and that ended up being a big deal for a lot of us, and patience never was her strong suit. I think it probably helped because Char had been around with that host lady for a few years and she had always done right by her making trust easier. Best I can think to do is keep on doing what you are doing, being there and hopefully helping to lower the anxiety just by being there and by being you. I do understand it has to be hard to want to do/help more and get pushed away. It's just scary as all get out for some us us and it can take awhile to be more accepting. Yeah, patience is the best thought I have. Hopefully someone else around here will come along with better ideas. Wishing you well.

V