I am sorry someone used Buddha to hit you over the head........someone standing outside of compassion and using it for a weapon....that would make me quite upset too......We all feel within our own experiences....I used to long ago...enjoy the sarcastic humor of a comedian...I saw on television...then I saw him live at a show.....I was completely disgusted with his vulgarity...there wasn't humor in it for me....I sat in a crowd of hundreds who were laughing...and I was repulsed....that was it for me....I no longer had any wish to listen to the man speak....and that is okay....

Just an opinion....I think the magician set you up in a way....he looked for a pretty girl...smoothed you over with words....fluffing you a bit with them....and then he used the vulgar for humor....he set the stage for you to relax....I don't know the rules for sexual harassment....yet I know that it is okay for any woman anywhere to find her own measure for what is acceptable behavior for her....the man used your femininity as part of his joke.....to further the laugh.....he did it without your awareness...so it was without your permission.....notice...he didn't look for a good looking man...to share...the digging around in his pants.....it was on purpose....you have every right to not enjoy or wish to be an unwitting participant in his manipulation......though....I would recommend never getting on stage with any person...doing an act....it is okay to SAY NO....I have done it a few times.....they are going to use you.....that is why they are asking....I for one am not really agreeable to being USED for anything....certainly not at my expense in front of a crowd....

I think....too bad when he showed you the card....you couldn't have just held your nose and shook your head....I never think of those kinds of things until too late....