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Originally Posted by healed84
Also, whenever I have said that I am worried that I am emailing you too much you always say no I am not don't worry about it. Well, could I get like some kind of number? I just feel like it is too much, and I don't want it to go from being allowed to email you too much and then all of a sudden I am in session and we are having a conversation about how I email you too much. I would like to have like a well defined line.
I suppose you don't mind because I think if you thought I was emailing too much you would perhaps suggest going to two times a week until I get more stable, but I really doubt you have room in your schedule for that right now.
Can you tell I am thinking about emailing your right now??
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I tried to get MC to give me a number once, for e-mails and other outside contact. Of course he wouldn't give me one. He just said if something crossed the line into too much, he'd let me know, but it hasn't so far. And even if I contacted him too much, he said he'd just have a conversation with me about it, not ban outside contact or terminate or something. Which...helped a little I guess? But I like having rules, too. I suspect your T also won't give you a number--I think it's a T thing to respond like that.