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Old Jun 04, 2017, 09:42 AM
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Not sure why I feel bad. This person lives in a another state and only messages me to be nosey about stuff in my life and lecture me on things....

We used to be good friends, she lived close and we walked my dogs daily but then she ruined the chance I had of my dream job and I forgave her for my own sanity but now she is driving me nuts, with her constant lectures and I wanna unfriend her on Facebook but I feel really bad about it.... Any advice??

*Just in case anyone wants to know the story about my dream job, I'll type it below*

I got offered a week long trail for the animal place I love most in the world and its out of state. I was to go there and see if I fit in and they could hire me on if so.

She had family in that state and agreed to drive me.... so everything was in place. I made all my reservations at the place I was staying, for a rental car when I got there etc, and we were to leave Sat am and get there very late sun so I could be to work early monday

Well... Sat am came, and I waited and wait... texted and called and waited some more. Got to be well after noon and nothing. I started to freak out.... then I kept calling and a few hours later, like around 4, she left me a long message claiming she had left without me because she felt I didn't wanna go that bad, and she had dropped her phone in the toilet....

Well I was basically screwed, last minute.... I could not call the company as they were not open then... but I left a message however it was not gonna go me any good as I would not be there by Monday am. Yes I could of flown but last minute flight was far too much and it was a 2 hr drive from the airport to there, and I have driving anxiety, so that would never of worked. I trusted someone and it backfired

For weeks I tried to apply again and even a few months later and they never allowed me another chance to work there. I've been depressed about it for years but try not to let it get to me as I am sure it wasn't meant to be anyway...

None the less... someone treated me like this and now just lectures me, why am I feeling so bad about unfriending her? ugh
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