You're right scott.....that really "sucks"! I think 1 month is more than enough time for somebody to have "won" this game of "phone tag". Who is not returning who's phone-call? I have to agree that before making decisions to stop therapy with a particular T or Pdoc, it would be helpful to make your needs (rights) known and then see what happens. If after you have told them both how you feel, they don't get the call made, THEN make some decisions. You have every reason to be feeling frustrated.
good luck! tulips