I too miscarried my first pregnancy (a long time ago now) and it is definitely a grieving/healing process. At the time I felt a little hope knowing that I could conceive. Hang in there.

I certainly agree that medications do have an important role. In fact my family doc was not too happy when I told him I'd stopped everything. I'm actually reconsidering cause I'm just feeling so blah again this afternoon. Its been a roller coaster since early December. I can usually get away with a half tab of immovane for sleep if my mind wont shut down at night. I know a lot of people that swear by melatonin.