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Old Jun 04, 2017, 09:17 PM
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Originally Posted by kecanoe View Post
My service dog alerts me when I dissociate; because he does that trained alert, he counts as a service dog not an ESA. We did work with a trainer for a couple of years so that he would be obedient and mannerly in public, but the trainer mostly trained me Like seesaw, I was fortunate that my dog turned out to have the temperament suitable for a service dog.

In addition to his trained tasks, just having him around eases my anxiety. I do not have the degree of anxiety that you describe, but he does help some. It will attract a lot of attention- you will be asked by all sorts of people why you have a dog and you will be asked constantly if people can pet your dog. For me, having to say no to all the people who want to pet him is harder than saying why I have him. People are generally satisfied with my explanation of dissociation. But many people think that they should be allowed to "cuddle" my dog just because they love dogs. I hear over and over how hard it is for them to resist petting my dog. This despite his vest and his patch that reads "do not pet". Some people even argue with me about it. So that might be something to consider.

Trained SDs cost a lot of money, training one yourself will take a lot of time (and money for obedience school unless you have a lot of experience training dogs). Perhaps you might do well to start with an ESA, they are generally cheaper and require less training. Your school may well be willing to let an ESa attend classes with you. It would be worth asking.
I have gotten to the point where I have no issue saying don't touch my dog. Then they ask me what his name is, and I refuse to tell them, because all they want to do is talk to him and further distract him, which is actually illegal -to distract a working service dog. People see what they want to see. Astro wears a big red vest that says 'do not pet' and 'service dog' and people still walk right up to him and try to pet him. Then they feel really stupid when I school them on putting my life in jeapardy by distracting my dog. I used to be nice about it, but frankly, I got tired of every outing being mobbed by people with questions, I try to be polite but firm that I want to be left alone.

Unless it's an employee asking what my SD is for, I tell people it's none of their business. My private medical diagnosis is none of their business.

Places of business can only legally ask two questions, and i have no problem answering those to an employee or business owner, but not the general public. I owe them no more a reason for my service dog than I do for a wheelchair.
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Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.

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