When I was dating, I only told a few women, and that would be after I felt like I had spent enough time with them that they knew what kind of person I was. Friends I've had for a long time know about my sz, but that is because we were friends before diagnosis and it was easy to tell them upon dz. New friends since dz don't get to know. Maybe eventually, but it is not really needed. And like junkDNA says, I follow that, work must NEVER KNOW.