If you seperate, who looks after your daughter? When you are in the hospital, who cares for your daughter? Your husband doesn't sound very supportive. I'm so sorry all that happened....it must be so terrifying for you. You need some help, someone to look after you for awhile. I'm so sorry your husband is threatening separation at this time. This must be such a difficult time for you Raspberry. I'm so sorry for all you and your family have gone through. Mental illness feels like a curse. (((Hugs)))