I would be very disturbed if my T kept pressing me. I am encouraged to share what I can or want & sometimes need to share. My T will only ever ask questions about the very thing I've just told him. He keeps reassuring me that I have the control & I am in charge. We go at my pace & when I have had enough, I tell him that it's enough & I don't want to talk anymore today about it. He respects my choice & usually tells me that he knows how hard it is for me. I would not cope with a T who was being too pushy & I would find that aggressive. I think we are all so different that a one size, fit all approach would not work. I think as you get to know your T, your T will learn how to respond with you & how best to support you. I hope you find a good T because a good T will be the best thing there is in the world to support you. Good luck.