So, that's what it was?!? Just controlling behavior? I was wondering why after all that happened and him telling me how horrible i am compared to EVERY women he knows, that he would be happy over being stupid FB friends.

Oh and by the way, Facebook was his life. The amount of selfies and innapropriate things hed post were all looking for attention. A friend committed suicide and he posted about her pain on Facebook. Which I though was so inappropriate maybe her husband and family didnt want anyone to know that. But he would post stuff like this in a way to make it seem to his gazillion friends on Facebook he was a nice caring man... he'd post about wanting world peace but then at the same time be ripping me to shreds over the phone. It was very isolating and confusing and I am always thought it was me... if all these other people think he is so great. Maybe I'm the cause of this. So, it's just a matter of control?!?