My best friend since childhood has been cheated on in the past and now doesn't trust any man, she also always has to have a man in her life, she is now living with her boyfriend and constantly checks their phone records to see who he is talking to or messaging with or checks his Facebook on their computer at home and she messages me everyday with a new problem with him. I'm there to listen to her anytime but I can't get her to try therapy. She obsessed with where he is and what he's doing every minute of every day. I just feel bad that I can't help her get past this obsession. I'm trying to be a good friend but sometimes it's too much for me. I guess I'm just venting. She is there for me to, she always checks on me when I'm depressed so it really is a two way friendship. I guess I'm just sad that she goes through this, I mean her anxiety get through the roofvevery day over this man. I want her to be happy but she has no plans to leave him either. I know this isn't bipolar related but I just wanted to get this off my chest. I feel like I carry this on my shoulders to but I guess that's what friends do. Thanks for listening.