I don't know what to tell you. I'm going through the same thing. I live by myself and have been for a good long time. I prefer it that way. Do you like living alone? If you don't, then maybe you can consider getting a roommate.

What I do for myself is workout after work. I do it at home and I prefer it that way. I don't like gyms. And other days I go for a bike ride after work in the season when the sun sets later. I feel like now, as I've gotten older, I'm not in to getting out there to socialize.

At where I live, it would be nice to have a good friend. I don't have much in common with my neighbors. At night I go to the pool area. About 98% of the time I go there, I'm by myself. It would be nice to have someone there with me that I like. There had been some nights when it can get ruined by other people. I'd rather be alone than to put up with obnoxious people. But it seems like at my place, I'm either alone or with bad company.

Best to you. I hope that someone else on here can come up with a good answer for you. I notice that you are from Boston. I came from that area.