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Originally Posted by DadFMF
She wasn't in school, hanging around other men, so she was more engaged and was busy being a supportive wife and mother
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I read it exactly as written..."she wasnt in school, hanging around other men"....that says if she wasnt in school she wouldnt have been hanging around other men.....so from what I read, its school that is being blamed for her hanging around other men & if she hadnt gone to school that wouldnt have happened. Im just interpreting the words I read that dad is writing......
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I agree Trippin. I said one on one with other men is not acceptable just like if I were to go out one on one with another female cause eventually something more than likely would happen
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Thats not what you wrote when asked the difference between what your wife was like before & that time........your writing came across blaming her lack of attention to you on your last deployment on the fact she was in school hanging around other men (nothing to do with one on one which according to your own words has made her not engage & no longer be a supportive wife & mother. The way it reads the blame is placed on ger going to school forboth being around the men & for being unengaged with you, & an inattentive wife & mother.
So dad....what do YOU REALLY mean by what you wrote?