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Originally Posted by rose1985
I have it too with my back. I'm so sorry you have it too. Hugs. I even hired someone to come clean today even though I really can't afford it bc I'm hurting more lately bc I've been more active the last couple of weeks. My brother is coming here from California next week and I just couldn't let him see what a mess my apt is. And you add on the bp and depressions we deal with, it's so hard.
My sister's are mad that I'm spending money on a house keeper. But I've been waking up in so much pain I see no other way. I only have ibuprofen and muscle relaxer for the pain. They help a little. I could probably get hydros again but I don't want to have to need them. It just sucks. Hugs to you Elsa and wc!
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I'm so sorry Rose. I'm deeply sorry. If I had it to do over again I would have had a housekeeper weekly when I was working. It might have saved me years of pain and torment. I was too embarrassed to admit I needed one. I should have been proud to employ someone as should you. Tell your sibling you are feeding the economy and employing someone....you should be so proud of that! My inlaws got us a housekeeper recently as both my husband and I are disabled and have a hard time with scrubbing the bathtub and floors. It was really nice of them but I also felt judged by the housekeeper and they seemed to do things to intentionally make me feel worse which was less than ideal. I imagine they did so because my inlaws are technically their employer, not me. But beggars can't be choosers and I'm grateful for the help, even if it comes with a tad bit of an attitude. (((Hugs)))