Hi Buck,

I, personally, do not mind if my husband views erotic sites. I don't even mind if he watches the movies but he really doesn't.

I really agree with cyran0. I have read many of his posts and have found him to be very insightful and understands the male psyche well.

I wish I could add my own comments, but as a female, I don't know if I can totally relate. I think that porn can be very beneficial to a relationship, except when viewing depictions of rape, violence, and bestiality). In actualities, scientific studies have proven this to be true.

My advice is to work on forgiving yourself and work into acceptance instead.

Be Blessed,
Peacemaker
Sherri