T,

One of the reasons my abuser sibling hurt me was because I am female. He told me. You wouldn't be able to help me sort that out and my gender identity confusion. I wish you could, I wish you wanted to. But you can't and you don't.

Some people hate their gender because of the gender based violence they experienced but they aren't confused they're male or female or in between.

How do I tell you when you're going to be more clueless than me?