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Originally Posted by Hopingtrying
I know I am lucky in that I know my mom and dad loved me. I assume that you are going to have to "process" (talk about how your family hurt you, figure out if you need to reconcile, keep your distance or something in between) your relationship/childhood. That might help you move on and make friends more easily. It may be a painful process but it will be worth it. Hopefully, you connect with your therapist. I am sorry you are hurting right now... 
And being short on money for basic things is a very tough place to be. If we are worried about our finances, it makes it harder to focus on healing. I hope things improve for you. <<hugs>> |
Let me put it this way. I can't live without basic support from parents because everyone deserves this basic support (like caring whether you are alive and clean and ok) and people socialise on the basis of this. I have lashed out so often and she just takes it as "normal" and doesn't even ask what is wrong. Everything I do is dismissed. Nothing is acknowledged. I have much to give but I need support to do so and I have none.