I'm mostly wondering what you think of the idea, if H agrees (and I suspect he would, because he knows how I'm struggling), to focus on the transference for a few weeks in the hopes of resolving some of those issues and then we can focus pretty much solely on the marriage. Because I don't know how much longer I want to continue on in this state, of sort of touching on it a bit but not really, like just treating the symptom of the moment but not addressing the bigger picture.