I don't think I fit in either, not really.
I say though if you do have to go to the social event then go how you will be comfortable. If that means full bear mode who cares, you shouldn't have to pretend to be someone you're not
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Tired of feeling lost, tired of letting go.
Tear the whole world down, tear the whole world down.
Tired of wasting breath, tired of nothing left.
Tear the whole world down, tear the whole world down.
Failure.
Failure - Breaking Benjamin