heyjoe - she is not the jealous type anymore. She used to be when we first started dating and I think that has a lot to due with why I had a hard time telling her the truth on this. 2 years ago I think she would have probably just up and left me where as now she was very open to talking to me about what was going on and just letting me know that the reason it hurt so bad was because I didn't tell her.

The reason she hates porn is because of stuff in her past it isn't because she is really jealous or religious. I agree with the fact that jealousy is corrosive and I am very happy that she is not jealous anymore and is more open to talking and trusting me. She does not want to control or change me...her past relationships have shown her that you cannot change a person unless they want to change.