Hello MaxAugusts: Honestly I don't know what to tell you about this other than to reiterate what Molinit wrote. It strikes me that one of two things is going on here. One possibility is that your gf is asexual. There are people who simply have no interest in sex. If you search "asexuality" on YouTube, you'll find numerous videos on this topic.

The other possibility is that there are experiences in your gf's past that she has not dealt with & does not want to talk about. Perhaps your gf doesn't really know for sure what is going on with her herself. She simply knows she has no interest in sex. Either way, unfortunately, there's probably little or nothing you can do to change this. And that being the case, it just becomes a matter of you deciding which is more important... sex or your relationship with your girlfriend.

I see this is your first post here on PC. So... to PsychCentral… from the Skeezyks! May the time you spend here be of benefit.

PsychCentral is a great place to get information as well as support for mental health issues. The more you post, & reply to other members’ posts, the more a part of the community you will become. Plus there are social groups you can join & chat rooms where you’ll be able to connect with other PC members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.) Lots of great stuff! So please keep posting!