Today T had 4 candles lit. For 7 years there has been one or none. I asked why so many. She said because she likes candles. That makes me angry too! If she likes candles, why now! I think it's because there was someone new before me. A new client, I suppose. Anyway, I' m angry with T but the child parts love her. I don't know how she's going to help me heal. I'm curious.