Me, too...struggling with it right now with MC and ready to try to find some way to break it...I asked via e-mail yesterday if we could spend a few sessions (H is OK with it) really focusing on the transference/attachment instead of just doing it piecemeal, in the hopes of really figuring it out and getting through it. He responded today that we can do that, but he couldn't say that we'd get through it in 3 sessions, that it might take more time than that. How the time between sessions processing is really important, too. But overall that it takes time.

So maybe you're trying to do too much too quickly? Maybe try not to push so much?