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Take a look at the book "Understanding the Borderline Mother", by C.A. Lawson. I only gave it a three out of five (I tend to be critical), but it's still definitely worth a read.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Thank you-- I will next time I go to the library.

I've only read one book on this subject-- "Stop walking on eggshells"...... and saw A LOT of my mother in there. I found it somewhat helpful in that I blamed myself a little less--not that I put all the blame on her either-- just helped me to better understand the whole picture. So, yes I will go search for that other book--
thank you again.

mandy