Sound like sour grapes from one individual to me....

Personality clash? Jealousy on her part because nobody asked her? Petty jealousy?

Remember high school? sometimes people never outgrow that behavior. You got offended, maybe, (I would have....it sounds like....criticism to some of us. Very hurtful for those of us with a ****** childhood.

I am sorry.
(((hugs))) Reconsider going back to leading.