I agree with Jessica, get a life and show him you are an independent woman. Find mommy and me classes. Go to the children's room at the library. Are their childrens play groups? Physical fitness for mommy and baby? If you need to move. He wants his cake and to eat it too. Whatever you do do not continue close physical relations with him as it not only gives in to him but could be very dangerous for you. You can do this. You have the power to make a nice life for you and the baby.