i think it would be pretty hard to hide an addiction to porn. the thing that bothers me about videos and stuff like that is that they depict men forcing women to do it and making it look like women enjoy being forced into sex. to me, it looks like glamorizing rape scenes basically. i would much rather have a bunch of maxims laying around the house than those kinds of videos. i have a bad history with things like that and seeing it is a big trigger and it upsets me that men can get off on things like that i guess. i think we got the whole situation out in the open and working through it. thanks cyran0.