Thanks all. I've been told that these episodes are indicative of having BPD, but I don't understand how. I told a past T about possibly having BPD and she and I agreed that it didn't sound remotely like the right DX for me.

I know that people with BPD often have deep seeded fears of abandonment, perhaps they even have black and white thinking, but it's the lack of empathy that really doesn't sound like me. I do experience empathy. In fact, recently I felt superbly guilty about moving on from a guy I'd been on a couple of dates with to being with my current BF. I even posted about it in the relationship forum.

Anyways, what do you all think?