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Jun 08, 2017, 02:58 PM
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Member Since: Apr 2014
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Posts: 8,406
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Originally Posted by cielpur
I disagree with this completely. I have been attacked by you in my own thread, and in other PC members threads, that violates the community guidelines. So, technically I have been on the receiving end of your harsh comments, but I have not acted irrationally. And, you have never chosen to speak to me via PM about why my opinions bother you; you instead choose to attack me in public threads, which again, violates the community guidelines. What is your true intention, doing that?
How do you know what other people's intentions are when they post their opinion? And why is it ok, for you to attack people, in their threads, like you attack me? It's not ok! You have never agreed to disagree. That's not your style. Your style, I've experienced, is to personally attack people for having a different opinion than you. Everyone is allowed to have their opinion. If you disagree with it, you can 1) put the member on ignore or 2) choose not to respond b/c you know you'll attack them personally for their opinion or 3) respond that you disagree but go no further, with personal attacks.
Life is full of different opinions. And people disagree with each other. They can disagree respectfully or they can personally attack the other person, which I do think, is a sign of a weak character.
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I think how you've responded here and in other posts is a sign of your character, cielpur. You complain a lot about these qualities or habits, but you never look in the mirror and see that you, yourself, are just as guilty of them.
When I apologized to you in chat, you refused to accept, claiming that I "intended" to insult you, when you just above said you can't know what other people's intentions are.
Life is full of options, and I notice that you tend to be extremely confrontational, have high expectations that you believe every one should live up to, even if they don't agree with those expectations, and refuse to budge on any beliefs or opinions you have. I think it would benefit you to learn to communicate assertively rather than aggressively and to wait to respond to something instead of responding out of impulsiveness and anger.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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