Ah, that is not how I took the statement, thank you for clarifying.

I thought your T had been working with you to bring forth the different parts to let them have voice - and the different parts were the tribe and running the circle would be purposely and periodically, just checking in with each of them to see what they are up to and how they are feeling - rather than waiting until one feels the need to take control because of a need to feel safe and protected.

I think this is the way it is going to play out for me, it seemed to be the way I was headed at least.