I don't believe that there is a fast track. And I also no longer believe it's necessary to jump.

There are times in life when we are faced with challenges that, for some reason, we believe will yield results that are "good" for us. I used to believe that I had take on these challenges whether or not I felt (emotionally) the goodness--sort of like the challenge of jumping into the deep water of the pool for the first time when you were a kid.

However, I have come to believe that's not necessary and I can take these challenges (or not) when I "know" they are right. And I know it, when I trust my feelings.

So....you will know when you feel it. Take your time and trust yourself.

Peace