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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
It's assholian behaviour, not bipolar.
Your ex is a normal rum of the mill two faced asshat, having bipolar doesn't make him special or excuse his actions.
He did you a favour, you dodged a bullet, one day you'll thank him for dumping you.
In fact I would actually send a card.
Sorry it hurts, but it's for the best, you said it yourself, it was toxic.
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--response I have often accepted "bad boy" behavior from men throughout my life, so this seems so familiar. I was very shy, but still, repeating this pattern is so painful. The responses are so on target. This person doesn't care about you and you need to be strong enough to walk away. I found it really helps to make a list of the qualities you want in a man, then stick to it. We are just downright lazy when we accept this kind of treatment, as if its impossible to meet nice men, or they don't exist. Join organizations that cater to your interests, do things you enjoy (aerobic exercise is amazing for depression), take classes and you will meet the nice ones.