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Originally Posted by Moment
Have you talked about all this directly with the therapists? And discussed ways of making it better?
If you have expressed your concerns clearly, and they are not able to be any more consistent, then I think it's time to look for new therapists.
Consistency is hugely important, in my opinion.
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I didn't speak to my T at all. I was going to speak to her in my last session but she should interest in certain parts of our session which I thought was better than the session two weeks prior. I let that situation go. I did bring up to my T that I have issues in between sessions coping especially when events happen in between sessions. She explained that I can't let external forces control me. That does nothing for me or my situation. It remains a saying in my world.
As for my boys T I think I was more shocked that the session started off with scheduling issues for next week. I thought we had resolved that which is why I wa being patient. When she started again with the same scheduling issue I almost lost hope at the time and I didn't want to deal with it at the time. Also she didn't address a very important issue with my son. Then the one part she addressed half way my son shutdown and dissociated during therapy and went to sleep. That's how his session ended. I was a little disappointed to say the least. I didn't bring it up after the fact. The schedule is still up in the air as to when they go back. She wants me to touch base with her to see if one of my boys can see her Tuesday night which isn't feasible due to a school trip. I really don't want to text her and chase her concerning this. I think at this point she should reach out to me. In fact she asked me last week if I can switch days this week. I remain flexible and I work with her but I feel I'm placating her for her other patients but there's no flexibility for them. It's just disappointing. I was thinking of reaching my T about it being that my boys T and my T are best friends. The issue is that I don't like conflict and my T can't really do anything but hear me complain. Now we are in between sessions and she will find it bothersome if I contact her. Again their T is super nice and great with them when she's there. They really like her but this is our new issue.