I'm inclined to agree with unaluna. I felt shamed and put down and explored by my last T and, yes, I was. But what was such a big deal about it? Why and how did get so upset? AND I didn't really have the words or the understanding that that was how I felt at the time.

Are you afraid of anything that might happen if you tell her how you feel? What is the terror about? Maybe you could talk to her about the fear first?