Thank you guys so much for all the supportive, positive comments. Even the ones who disagree with how I felt and think it wasn't a big deal, I appreciate that you didn't attack or invalidate me for it. We all feel how we feel.

Interestingly enough, that was the only post this person made on that forum. Nothing else on their profile. Before she had responded, I already contacted the magician directly on social media and told him how I felt, and he apologized genuinely and took it very seriously, and promised not to do anything like that again. He said his comedy is usually pretty PG. So I think that issue was resolved fairly well.