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Originally Posted by precaryous
Can you bring the inconsistency issue up with children's T? Tell her this is a problem, ask when she expects she can get them back on whatever schedule you had. If that timeline is unreasonable, I would say it's time to find another T for children.
I wouldn't expect children's T to chase you at this point. It may be upsetting initially but you and your children will have less dissatisfaction and trouble if you take control and be up front with what you and children need. If their T can't provide that, time to move on.
I would not involve your T in this other than support for you during any needed change in children's T.
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Ingad to text her a few hours ago. My youngest came out of school and told me why he shutdown and dissociated. He told me that she was siding with his father and Calling My youngest unfair. My ex left him at home with his girlfriend for three hours with giving my youngest a heads up. My ex girlfriend and him don't get along. My ex lied to the therapist and said that he had a great time eventhough he wasn't there to see it and that he did give my son a heads up the day before. My son was upset and said that he didn't think his therapist would've sided with his father and not believe him. She never told me what she said to him which is fine. He just turned 12. She told me that he shut down and that he was starring into space. He then went to the waiting room and went to sleep right after. She never told me that she called him unfair and so on. I brought his concerns to her attention as soon as I found out and she hasn't answered. She's usually great about answering. I'm guessing with this she's going to get defensive.