I'm posting here today because I know that I need to change my self for the better but I'm not sure how to go about it and I'm honestly not sure if I can change because I have been the way I am for so long. I have honestly tried to be a good husband even though I have failed at that but I did try. Just like when I was growing up I tried to be a good son.

I feel like I have never been allowed to really be myself because of how people will judge and compare me to some of the monsters in my family. I have always felt like I had to be someone else then who I really am because of the people that are in my life. Is there any advice anyone can give me ?