I guess I can't stop posting because I still have things on my mind and this is where I vent....

So last night, she invited me over again and asked to pick up a bottle of wine. So during the night she opened up a little more and basically asked If I thought she had sex with this other man. She told me again they hung out a lot and had fun but the thing that bothered me more than anything is she will sarcastically say "Oh we had sex numerous times" and so on so forth. I'm not so sure if she is being sarcastic or not. She said she went to Myrtle Beach with him and so on so forth, and she thinks that is perfectly fine. (It's a hour from where I live). We ended up kissing, holding eachother and having sex again. Yet she still continues to bring this other person up when I am trying to forget about it all. She asked if I wanted to see a video on her phone of them doing the "Mannequin Challenge" with my children while I was gone....just a bunch of disrespectful things. She is opening up about certain stuff but damn it's painful as hell.

I also applied to move into Base housing. I am currently living at a friends house while they are deployed. Come to find out my wife seems to have no desire to move in right now and wants me to have the housing for the kids sake so it gives her more time to take care of her stuff as far as school...but why wouldn't my wife want to move in? She acts like she can't finish school while living with me....

I am receiving a lot of mixed signals. I'm not sure if she really cares about me or if she is infact manipulating me with sex. She told me after she was a little topsy from the wine that I had hurt her badly and she said being a Christian didn't help her as she said she was a good woman so she said "F it" I'm just going to do me and I don't care who I hurt anymore, I'm going to do for me. She still constantly brings up this OM, but said they hardly talk anymore but the do work together at one of her jobs (Both are LPN's).

I just feel like I don't know what to do. I thought we were getting on track but I still don't feel she is there 100% and that she is more interested in hanging out with her friends and living the single life still..

Guess my question is...what do I do? Do I stop talking to her and donthe 180? She's been inviting me over a lot recently and it's usually to bring her wine..is that a way of having me around, or am I looking into it to much??? I'm just confused with the mixed signals