My wife had a complicated pregnAncy with our second child and the Doctor recommended she get her tubes tied, in which she did.

He life growing up with strict. She was raised Jehovah witness so they had many restrictions as children. She got married when she was 20 and was married to him till she was 23. He left her to Perdue other goals. During that break and before she met me, she was out in the clubs having fun living the party life. When we meet (She was 25) that's when we started dating and it became about us.

About this other guy, i still don't know if it was physical or just emotional. She keeps asking if I think they had sex...like why would she keep saying that or bring it up? She tells me they didn't but then she will say yeah, we had sex me and you still be with me? I don't know wether she is testing me to see my redaction or if she really did have sex with him and wants to see if I would take her back. To be honest, if she got physical with this guy, I would never be able to touch her like that (Even though I did recently). I can get over an emotional affair but she has to drop him. If she still plans to be friends with this guy, it will be devastating to our marriage. It's just like if I still talked to the woman that I was texting.

I don't think she knows what she wants but I know I'm not a plan B. I think I am going to initiate the Divorce Busting 180 to get myself emotionally detached from the situation. All it's doing know is hurting me.