Identify what exactly it is you'd like to change.

Whilst we're pretty ingrained in things like our personality at this stage of the game, if you're looking to change things within your marriage, it's actions that you can change.

Start small. Don't try take on the whole world all in one go.

Think of one small gesture that you can start with at a time.

Take your wife for coffee?
Go for a walk on the beach?
Give her flowers?
Do the cooking and dinner for her?